Cognitive distortions, in plain English.
A cognitive distortion is a small, repeatable pattern your mind uses to tell itself a half-true story. They're not personal failings. They're shortcuts that everyone runs, sometimes more loudly than other times. Naming them is most of the work.
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The most common ones, in the wild
- All-or-nothing thinking — "I'm a failure" instead of "I had a hard week."
- Catastrophizing — assuming the worst-case is the only case.
- Mind-reading — believing you know what others are thinking.
- Fortune-telling — treating a prediction as a fact.
- Personalizing — taking responsibility for things that aren't yours.
- Should statements — telling yourself what you should be doing, feeling, becoming.
- Discounting the positive — letting evidence to the contrary count for nothing.
How Calm AI Therapy treats them
When the agent notices one of these patterns in your message, it gently names it and invites you to look at it from a different angle. It does not lecture you or list distortions in a wall of text. It picks one and asks one question.
Common questions
Are cognitive distortions a diagnosis?
No — they're a CBT framework for patterns of thought that anyone can notice and change.
Can I get rid of them?
Not really. The goal is to notice them in time to put them down.
Try noticing one in your own thinking — type it on the landing page.
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